F*ck Perfect: The Messy Momcast
Life isn’t about perfection—it’s messy, chaotic, and beautifully imperfect. In F*ck Perfect: The Messy Momcast, we dive into the moments that don’t quite make the highlight reel: navigating relationships while raising kids, surviving domestic violence and reclaiming your power, living with a narcissist and learning to heal, rediscovering yourself after divorce and beyond motherhood, and everything in between—all with a side of unfiltered comedy. As a mom who’s been there, I bring real talk, raw honesty, and my nerdy humor to every episode. This is your space to laugh, cry, and remember that you’re not alone. Together, we’ll break the silence, embrace the chaos, and remind each other that it’s okay to talk about it. So pull up a chair or settle into my virtual couch—your story and your voice matter here. Whether you’re looking for connection, healing, or just a good laugh to get through the day, this podcast is for you. Join the conversation, follow me on social media, and don’t forget to subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.
Episodes

Friday Jun 13, 2025
Episode 3: Messy Minds - Parenting Through Mental Health and Neurodiversity
Friday Jun 13, 2025
Friday Jun 13, 2025
This week on F*ck Perfect: The Messy Momcast — we’re getting real about parenting through mental health and neurodiversity. From ADHD to autism, join me for an honest, raw, and hopeful conversation about the highs, lows, and messy middle.
If you’re a parent, caregiver, or just want to learn, this one’s for YOU. Grab your headphones and listen now — it’s over an hour of truth, healing, and a little messy mom humor.
If this episode resonated with you, please share it, subscribe, and join The Messy Circle. Let’s keep the conversation going.
https://msha.ke/f.perfectmomcast
In the break down of diagnosis, I mentioned National Institute of Mental Health a few times as well as a few others.
Here are the links I found for my case that may help you.
Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD) https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/disruptive-mood-dysregulation-disorder
ADHD-Combined https://add.org/adhd-combined-type/
Anxiety & Depression https://www.cdc.gov/tobacco/campaign/tips/diseases/depression-anxiety.html https://adaa.org/understanding-anxiety https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/are-you-missing-these-signs-of-anxiety-or-depression

Friday May 30, 2025
Episode 2: The Void They Left — Talking About Absent Parents
Friday May 30, 2025
Friday May 30, 2025
In this 40-minute episode of F*ck Perfect: The Messy Momcast, we’re exploring the deep, complicated, and emotional topic of absent parents. Whether they left physically or emotionally or were never really there to begin with, the impact runs deep, and we’re talking about all of it.
From childhood wounds to the way it shapes us as adults (and as parents ourselves), I’m opening up about my own experiences and how I’ve learned to navigate the grief, anger, and healing that come with that kind of silence.
If you’ve ever felt the ache of someone who should’ve shown up but didn’t, this one’s for you.

Friday May 16, 2025
Episode 1: Meet the Mess Behind the Mic
Friday May 16, 2025
Friday May 16, 2025
In this very first episode of F*ck Perfect: The Messy Momcast, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing my story—who I am, where I’ve been, and why this messy, honest space matters. From surviving domestic violence and life with a narcissist to rediscovering myself after divorce (all while raising kids and keeping my humor intact), I’m laying it all out.
This 20-minute episode is raw, real, and just the beginning of the conversations we’re going to have here. So grab a drink, settle in on my virtual couch, and let’s get messy together.

Tuesday Feb 04, 2025
Welcome to...
Tuesday Feb 04, 2025
Tuesday Feb 04, 2025
This is the messiest podcast you'll ever come across.
My name is Katie, and life is messy!